nogutsnoglory
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I'm going to let the cat out of the bag on an otherwise uncomfortable and somewhat taboo subject for some. Some gay and straight couples practice anal sex and I think it's important to have a frank discussion of when its safe to do so with IBD. The ideal would be to discuss this with a doctor but most people would be too embarrassed to broach the subject.
My thoughts are that it's totally fine if your rectal area is not affected by disease. But I'm not so sure if there are issues below.
What if there is an abscess, can it burst? Would a fistula or fissure get aggravated and tear more? What about existing inflammation? Would it hurt or get worse even using condoms and lubrication? What if you have an ostomy bag? How long after surgery or drainage is it safe?
I'm not sure what the correct answers are but know that it's a question likely on the minds of some.
My thoughts are that it's totally fine if your rectal area is not affected by disease. But I'm not so sure if there are issues below.
What if there is an abscess, can it burst? Would a fistula or fissure get aggravated and tear more? What about existing inflammation? Would it hurt or get worse even using condoms and lubrication? What if you have an ostomy bag? How long after surgery or drainage is it safe?
I'm not sure what the correct answers are but know that it's a question likely on the minds of some.