Hello, do you have a peri bottle? It is a small squirt bottle for holding water to clean/rinse peri areas. You could carry it in a small accessory/shaving bag for when you use the restroom? You can get one at the pharmacy usually. Also do you have a sitz bath? A good way to clean the area before you leave the house and as often as possible when at home. Water is often the best to help keep the area clean. Ask if you can add sea salt or Epsom salt.
Pat dry with a cloth - for both. They might help keep the area clean and less irritated.
A pad or liner can help with leaks, change frequently. Unscented if you can.
As always, ask your Dr.
Best to you.