Hi, your story sounds a lot like ours. My son was diagnosed 4/22/10. He had just turned 10. He was always having tummy aches, and had gi problems even as an infant and lots of ear infections. I've been reading about how excessive antibiotic use in infants prevents them from developing normal gut microbia...I think he's a classic example. Probably the ear infections were related to undiagnosed food allergies, and then the antibiotics killed his gut flora. 10 years later, here we are.
After his dx, I also slowly gave him info on crohn's. It's a heavy load for a kid. He started on Pred (40mg) and eventually
budesonide and 6-MP. As of August he had regained 10 lbs (back to his 9yo weight), but has not yet started to grow (now on 7.5 mg pred). In July I began researching alternative (diet based) treatments. He's tested allergic to Almond, amaranth, corn, cows milk, sesame, soy, tomato, yeast, chickpea and is probably gluten intollerant. (I'm also gluten intollerant.) Right now we are trying 1 month completely free of all these foods. Also he's got a candida issue, so he's taking something for that. Oh, and he has a lot of mold allergies, too, but most are airborn.
I hope that you find comfort in reading the material on this forum. Don't be discouraged when you hear about people w/ difficult cases. Everyone is different. Keep a positive attitude, I think it's really important for your child's sake (but I have to admit, it's not easy!)