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Hi everyone,
I just joined this today and i am so very happy to have found it! My story is pretty long so i apologize in advance for the long post but i want to explain all i have been through so that i can hopefully get some much needed support and advice! Ok here i go.....

I am a 34 years old mom, i got my gallbladder removed back in 98 a month afte i had my twin boys! I had some issues with the after effects, everything went through me for a long time! After suffering a few years like that I saw a gi doc and she did a colonscopy and an endoscopy.....they found nothing wrong with me ad told me it was ibs, and to continue to live on immodium! So i did and i of course had good and bad days but just lived like that! Then i started to have rectal bleeding, went to my primary care doc and she said it was ibs and that i had hemroids....so i still continued to live like that!
That is utntil i started to drastically loose weight.....but i didnt want to go to the doctors and get told the same thing that it was ibs...well in august of 2007 i started having bad rectal pain and just thought it was the hemroids acting up. A few days later i couldnt move, called my doc and they called in pain med and anal cream, well a few hours later i ended up having pus and a ton of blood coming from my rectum, so i immediately went to the emergency room! I found out that it wasnt a hemroid that was bothering me, but i had a very large perianal abscess that had burst and had fistulasand my whole body was being infected. I needed emergency surgery, but i couldnt have the surgery right away becasue my blood levels were so bad that i needed blood transfusions. This was all so scary for me and i had no idea what was going on!! after getting 3 units of blood, and already on IV antibiotics and pain meds i had the surgery and the surgeon put in drains.... A gi doc was called in as well to take on my case as everyoe said that these are all symptoms of Crohns disease, which i had not heard of until this day. The surgeon was convinced that i had Crohns disease! I also got daily iv iron infusions while in the hospita, and i was started on a total of 16 Asacol pillls a day! The gi doc then did a colonoscopy while i was in the hospital! i ended up in the hospital for 10 days! Went home to a visiting nurse everyday, then i found out i also had kidney stones, i had a cat scan done in the hospital too! I went and followed up with my gi doc, and he said that the colonoscopy did not show that i have Crohns disease, but he was "treating me as if i did". i had a second surgery dec of 07, it was a fistulotomy. I had now lost over 60 pounds in 5 months. I also had to continue to follow up with the surgeon very often because of the drains, and she told me that she has been a colon rectal surgeon for a long time and there is no doubt in her mind that i have Crohns!! UGH..... So my symptoms improve some what but then i had good and bad days! My gi doc then said that he wanted to start me on immunosupressive therapy......i the mean time i found out i was pregnant, so that was out of the question. I had a great pregnancy, continued the asacol through it, and took the prenatal vitamins and iron becasue i was still anemic! I was so happy that i was doing so well! I had a C-section as precaution, in case i had any smal fistulas or abscess.....had my son sept 11, 2008!! And that is when i startedto go down hill again! I put off goig back to the gi doc becasue i was exhausted and was dealing with issues with my baby! After loosing 45 lbs ad suffering from rectal bleeding with every bm, i finally went back to my gi doc! He talked about doing an endoscopy.....had insurance issues, and i finally had that test a yr and a half ago! he also switched me to Lialda 4 pills per day, and i forgot to say i am on prilosec as well! He found nothing with the endoscopy, celiac was neg, and everything else was as well! I was anemic still so i had to increase my iron pills to 3 or 4 a day! i also was defficient in folic acid so i had to start taking folic acid everyday! I again had problems with my insurance so i was not able to follow up with my gi doc as i should have. Well i continued to loose weight( now it is a total of 60r more pounds ) I am the smallest i have ever been inmy life. I am 5'11'' and i wiegh 135 pounds. This past nov i started with really bad rectal pain again to the point that i couldnt sleep and the bought of diarhea was horrible, going 10-15 times on a very bad day, and i started to bleed. This concerned me, so i called to make an appointment with my gi doc. he called me back that evening and scheduled an emergency colonoscpy for the following day! So now i had to clean myself out in excruciating pain! I was crying all night long in pain! well i had the colonoscopy done....they needed to give me the maximum about of medication, my blood pressure was low to begin with and the was terribly low after all the meds, so i was there for over 5 hours and i had the hardest time waking up. He decided to do bloodwork. He also told me that he did not see signs of Crohns disease, but i did have ulcerated fissures, and hemroids(which i knew about) and he said that i was very swollen! So he said that i should see a new colon rectal surgeon and that i should see a Crohn specialist! He called me before i got home and said that i am severly anemic and that i need to see a hematologist, becasue i had NO iron at all in my body and my blood levels were low! ( i dont kow why he didnt have me go straight to the er) So a few days later i saw the hematologist who said i needed blood transfusions, and iron infusions...becasue the iron pills were not working. i had my first iron infusion that day, and got scheduled for the blood a few days later after getting more bloodwork! In the mean time i was still in horrible rectal pain....finally got an appointment qith the new surgeon( and i wish i went to my other surgeon) He said i needed surgery.....he said a hemroidectomy, a lateral anal sphincterotomy and something else! he said it would improve my quality of life. The surgery was going to be scheduled for january, but when the secretary called to schedule it she could hear the pain i was in so once again i had an emergency surgery. ( and i wish i looked more into what was being done) My gi doc called in the mean time and said that once i am healed from the surgery he wanted me to get the pillcam endoscopy done! and that he thinks that i have severe IBS from getting my gallbladder removed in 98. The surgery was a night mare, and i have to say that i am not having the sever rectal spasms everyday, but my poor rectum is still so swollen and i am still having some bleeding with BM. I have still been seeing the hematologist and a few weeks ago finally finished 8-10 iv iron infusions.....she also said that my b12 was borderline and she had not checked my folic acid.....i just had bloodwork done a few days ago, and i will call tomorrow for the results, i was finally being checked for the folic acid and she was further looking into my b12. I also fially had the pillcam endoscopy done yesterday, and i am waiting on the results of that! I apologize again for the long post and i know that there is so much that i left out becasue i was trying to just give the main details in the hopes that someone will read this and tell me what they think!! I am so frustrated with everything going on and the docs ot knowing what it is, all the research i have done points to crohns, but im not a doctors! I am not going to settle for a diagnosis of severe ibs.....my bodys not absorbing nutrients and vitamins and i just want to know what is wrog wioth me so i can get proper treatment and try to live a normal life! The surgery i just had, i wish i never had, but i will leave that for abother post! thank you so much for reading this and i hope that someone out there can help me out and talk to me cuz i feel so alone! Again thank you!!!!:sign0085:
 
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Welcome Sherry
You are in the right place for support. I am fairly new to the forum, and I am so glad that I had found myself here. The support is incredible. You will be able to get insight from many others here to help you through this. I certainly hope that you get the treatment and answers that you need soon.
We are all here for you.

Margie
 
Thank you so much Margie! I am just so frustrated with all i have been through, but i know that everyone has been frustrated at some point! I really hope to get some answers from the doctors soon! If i dont then i do plan on going into Boston and getting a second opinion.....i just feel like i am melting away to nothing, and i need to be here for my kids! It is also hard because my husband doesnt understand all i am going through and he is getting frustrated! So it is so hard!! I look forward to hopefully meeting many new people here!! :)
 
It is hard when the ones that you love do not understand what you are going through. You might want to print out some of the articles for him to read and maybe that might help him to understand a little bit better. What ever you do, listen to your body, you alone knows your body better than anyone else and that includes the doctors. If you don't agree with what this doctor says than it certainly won't hurt to go in to Boston for the second opinion.

Please keep us updated on what is happening. And if you ever need support or even just to vent. We are all here for you.

Margie
 

AndiGirl

Your Story Forum Monitor
Welcome to the forum, Sherry. I can totally understand your frustration. I was diagnosed six years ago, but have had symptoms of CD even longer than that. I'm still learning to cope with the illness. I don't think that you ever really get the hang of dealing with a chronic illness. Like you, I have kids, and it can be very challenging at times. Please make yourself at home. There are many wonderful members that have a lot to offer in the ways of friendship, advice, and listening ears.
 
i will hopefully have the results of the pillcam later this week if not next week, and i will be calling the hematologist in the morning for my bloodtest results and see if i need to start up more iron infusions! I have bee battling with the doctors, and my gi doc had the nerve to say to me " i dont think your making this up" i went crazy! How could i make up havig an abscess, fistulas, fissures, anemia, folic acid defficiency and borderline b12!! UGH, but i am trying to stay positive that i will get more answers.....cuz when i asked the hematologist why i had no iron and other defficiencies, she just said its cuz you have a malabsorption disorder.....well what does that mean??
 
Thank you for the warm welcome Andi. I am really hoping to learn more from everyone on here and hopeully get some input cuz right now i have no clue if i do have Crohns or not, but i am beig treated for it! i am just so confused!!
 
Welcome Sherry, I'm new here too but not new to Crohn's. I'm sorry you're having such a hard time, I can't even imagine how frustrating that must be. I hope you get answers soon. Sending hugs!
 
Hi Sherry! I'm so sorry for all you have been through and are going through. This is a good safe place to get answers, and if not answers, at least support. You are welcome here!!!
 
Thanks so much jers girl! I am really hoping that I am able to find help hereand hopefully get some much needed advice! It is so hard dealing with all this stuff going on with my health and not having and definite answers! I feel like the doctors are just brushing me off, and only doing more testing because I break down and cry at every appointment or when I talk on the phone to him! I just know there is more going on than ibs! Maybe it is ibs, but I just don't know! Not sure if you get all my symptoms with ibs, so that is why I am here! Thank you again!
 

xJillx

Your Story Forum Monitor
Welcome, Sherry! You have been through so much! I am so surprised that none of your tests confirm Crohn's. You certainly have the symptoms, especially the blood. Those with IBS really don't pass blood. However, I guess the blood could be from the hemorrhoids. Oh, and the rectal pain - the bane of me existence! Isn't it the worst? It makes having a desk job torture!

I truly hope you get answers soon and can get on the road to feeling better. Please let us know the results of the pill cam - we'll be thinking about you!
 

ameslouise

Moderator
Hi Sherry and Welcome!

You have been thru a lot alredy! So, do you have an offical DX of Crohn's or is it still up in the air? It is my understanding that fistula are only present in Crohn's Disease. Also, B12 and folic acid deficiencies are very common in Crohn's, as is iron deficient anemia.

Hope your iron levels are back to normal now and you start to feel better from the surgery.

Any questions, ask away! Lots of knowledgeable folks here and good advice.

- Amy
 
Hi Welcome :)

I feel bad that you are going through so much. It will take a while for the iron levels to go back up if you were that depleted. I have gone for many so far and my levels are slowly rising. It is great that you found us here. There are a lot of supportive and friendly people on this forum!
 
Thak you everyone for such a warm welcome! It is such a great feeling to have people finally understand what i am going through! I guess technically i am not officially diagnosed with Crohn's although i am still being treated for Crohns with Lialda! I am hoping that the pillcam will find something so that i can start other treatment, and hopefully be able to live a better life! Since my surgery in december(which i wish i didnt get) but i trusted the new surgeon as to heknew what he was doing and at that point i was so desperate to not have excutiating rectal pain....i had spasms 24/7 and i couldnt function and it had gone on for a month ad a half! but since the surgery, i am still having some rectal bleeding, i have horrible skin tags, and now i have times where i am incontient! So much for the surgery improving my quality of life, cuz i feel like it has made it worse! The only thing that the surgery did improve is the pain, i am still in pain but not as bad as it was! I think that the ulcerated fissures have not healed, like they were supposed to! UGH!! As far as my iron levels, i do know that they were improvong very well so the hematologist decided to give me a few weeks off of iron treatment to see how my body does! i had blood draw on monday and of course called today for results and i have not heard back from them yet! She was also rechecking my folic acid and methylmalonic acid( or something like that) and to my understanding that is done when your b12 is borderline! So i just really dont know what else could be wrong with me with all the sypmtoms i have on a daily basis and the fact that i am not absorbing the nutrients. I am just so sick of havig severe stomach pains after eatig and being i the bathroom constantly! Thank you all again so much for the much needed support! I will update whne i find out the results of my blood work and get the reults from the pillcam!!
 
New here too.. so glad I found this support group! They found the crohns about a year ago at least I'm old....had the fistula and thought it was just another hemi..igorance is bliss!
My issue is I'm allergic to Imuran, flagyl and Remicade hasn't worked. The fistula won't heal and I'm not sure what the doctor is going to do next. Live in a rural area of Texas so looks like I'll be visiting Dallas.. And one know of a good GI there? Thanks in advance!!
 
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