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08-10-2011, 08:00 AM   #1
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08-10-2011, 10:01 AM   #2
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Excellent post! To me, it means friendship, understanding, camaraderie (hope I spelled that right!), and not being judged. Being taken seriously even though I'm undiagnosed. Sharing experiences and laughter and tears with people who know exactly what I'm going through. Unconditional support and acceptance. You guys rock!
08-10-2011, 10:07 AM   #3
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I have to agree with a lot of what Cat-a-Tonic says.

This forum is brilliant and been such a help to me this year getting my head around my diagnosis!! I used to fear my disease but now I embrace it!

I always come on here before hounding my GP or GI as usually a lot of my questions are answered by all you wonderful people! I am very grateful to whoever begun this forum, you deserve a medal!

Mwah!

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08-10-2011, 10:12 AM   #4
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This is the one place I can talk about my health issues and someone actually understands! My family has been supportive but sometimes they look at me like I'm crazy! This is my secret place!
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08-10-2011, 10:23 AM   #5
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I'm new here, but I love it. I don't feel so isolated. I'm not the only one here going crazy trying to get some kind of diagnosis. I generally feel like I can say what I need to say or ask what I need to ask. I'm sure that'll become even more comfortable over time. I've learned things here that I haven't found through years of research.

I have a supportive wife and mother-in-law, but my parents are not at all supportive. They don't even know I couldn't go into the office for 10 months straight because if I try to tell them what's going on they get mean blaming it on my diet, my weight, my lifestyle, whatever they can come up with other than my body actually being ill. They're coming to visit in a couple weeks, and I am planning to hide my handicap parking tag and just push on through things. I don't like talking to my friends about what's going on, because they can't relate or they underestimate the severity and make me feel like a complainer.
08-10-2011, 11:02 AM   #6
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Acceptance comes to mind.
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08-10-2011, 01:19 PM   #7
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For me its finding others who understand and wanting to be there for others because I understand. Even though I've dealt with this for many years I'm still learning new things from all of you and I want to share that new knowledge with others as well. Knowledge is power so we can all get the best treatment and support as possible.
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Currently in: REMISSION Thought it was a flare but it's just scar tissue from my resection. Dealing with a stricture. Remission from my resection, 17 years and counting.
08-10-2011, 02:15 PM   #8
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You can say poop as many times as you want and no one bats an eye....

But seriously, I found this forum right after my surgery and it was a lifeline for me. The people are so friendly and welcoming and no question is a stupid one. I think this forum is like family for many here. I know I talk to my real friends and family about you guys like I know you all and we hang out all the time....lol
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Surgeries: Colostomy, December 2009

"Never trust a fart." Jack Nicholson, The Bucket List

Oscar is awesome! Loving my life with my stoma (with a hint of poo)!!

08-10-2011, 02:20 PM   #9
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It's talking about poo! And bums!

it's my private place, my secret place no one really understands, where I can be totally honest and where people not only understand, synpathise and support me, but where they share the same problems.

It's the one place I feel normal
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Previous meds: Metronidazole, Infliximab, Humira, Azathioprine
08-10-2011, 03:34 PM   #10
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to gain knowledge I went from totally fine to needing surgery within a couple of months and I was scared but after getting lots of advice here I felt so much better, where else can you ask anything under the sun and actually get an intellegent answer? I hope now I can give back some of that advice through experience although I'm still learning everyday. Although IBD is so diverse we're all so similar!!
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08-10-2011, 04:19 PM   #11
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08-10-2011, 04:30 PM   #12
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Being stuck at home, sick and useless, yet still contributing to something worthwhile
08-10-2011, 05:25 PM   #13
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Hope. Being able to read stories of those who are doing well means I may do well some day as well.

Also, as others, a place to vent, gain knowledge, and know I'm not alone in feeling like crap.
08-10-2011, 05:57 PM   #14
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Support. Answers. There's a wealth of knowledge here that not even health professionals can touch. It's unfortunate GIs don't utilize this resource.
08-10-2011, 06:29 PM   #15
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this forum brings to mind family and support. to be heard not in a embrassing way , not to be judged and to be understood by others that are apart of this forum. it brings hope and real friendship and builds on that friendship. and good sound advice. i hope this forum stays the way it is for very long time for people to come and express themselfs openly.
08-11-2011, 08:11 AM   #16
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For me, it's giving something back, knowledge and experience.
Back in the day there was no computers or forums, I trawled thro library books!
I found this forum last year when I Googled Prednisolone!
It saved my life and sanity, I honestly thought I was gonna explode! til the peeps on here reassured me that I wasn't!
This is my sanctuary, not Holy, just somewhere to go and hide!
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08-11-2011, 08:19 AM   #17
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Lots and lots of people who understand and listen who laugh and make jokes who support and are there any time, not only when it fits their schedule (like my doc)

and poop jokes of course
08-11-2011, 09:16 AM   #18
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I agree with Cat a Tonic.. It means we're all in the same scenario just varying degrees and experiences. Its good to be able to laugh about it on goods days, cry or vent about it on bad days and all of this with people who can sit in front of their pc's saying "Yep, I know exactly what you mean with that one". Its a complete new learning curve for me personally. I went into work after being disgnosed and a work colleague came up to me all sympathic "How are you hun, have you taken your tablets today?, am sorry to hear your news" In a sad and almost patronising way. To which I answered "Yes I'm all drugged up and oh btw..Its life term, not life threatening hun".lol I maybe should have been more diplomatic but just couldn't resist.
08-11-2011, 03:06 PM   #19
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For me its stopped me descending into the hell that is depression again. Coming on here & reading about others who are obviously so worse off than myself was a wake up call akin to a good face slap. I particularly feel sorry for people in the states etc who have additional worries about insurance etc.
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08-11-2011, 11:41 PM   #20
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it means that I get to keep a little of my sanity
it means that I am not alone.
it means that I have met the most amazing people, and now friends, that I may never meet face to face..but they will hold a place in my heart forever.
it means you CAN trust a "stranger"..but, I still wouldn't recommend eating their candy!

I adore this site, and it is the first forum, chat room, anything of it's type that I have ever been a part of. Thank you to all of you wonderful and loving folks!

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08-12-2011, 02:45 PM   #21
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as people said above. it makes being sick less scary and isolating. Your not the only one out there.
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08-12-2011, 04:14 PM   #22
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I have been dealing with Crohns a very long time. Thought I had it figured out. Well, I WAS WRONG! The people here helped pull me out of such a deep depression, one I thought I could not recover from. I still thank them each day in my thoughts, because I truly know that I would not be here today without that support. You all know who you are. Again, I say thank you.
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08-12-2011, 04:31 PM   #23
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I am so thankful to have found this site! Outside of the people I have met here, I do not know anyone with Crohn's. I have received great advice here that I could not find from a book or website. Most of all, I do not feel alone any more!
08-12-2011, 04:33 PM   #24
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A place to learn, to find new friends who understand and can help and I hope that with knowledge and in time I will be able to give support to others. It's somewhere i can fit in and feel like I belong and not be frightened of this Crohns that till recently was like a black hole. Having this forum gives me knowledge and strength. This forum is a blessing!
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08-13-2011, 11:24 PM   #25
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What does the Crohns Forum mean to me...

It means friendship. The type of friendship that is often difficult to find.

It means you are no longer alone.

It means understanding. A place where you know how you feel is instantly understood.

It means acceptance. No explanations are needed, we have our different journeys but we know and accept that difference.

It means courage. It gives you the courage and strength to face the unthinkable.

It means hope. The hope that even in the darkest of days and times there is light and the good times will indeed return.

It means sanctuary. It is a place of comfort, familiarity and softness. A place where you don't see the look of disbelief, boredom, pity or ignorance when you speak of Crohns BUT if I did meet any of you I know that look wouldn't be there.

It means knowledge. The knowledge of experience and living. Sometimes that knowledge scares the hell out of me but I can't forever live with my head in the sand.

It mean honesty. The openness to speak of the the unspeakable and not be shunned or hushed.

It means humour. The ability for the people here to still see the funny side if things, to have a good natured laugh and dig.

It means choice. It adjusts to everyone's level of comfort, disclosure and frequency of use.

It means me. It has become a part of me. It is a place I look forward coming to. It is like meeting an old and trusted friend...sometimes you chat for hours and other times you say nothing but the silence is never awkward.

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08-13-2011, 11:48 PM   #26
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When I feel like I'm all alone, I can turn my computer on and find comfort and support. I am definitely not as lonely. I am married with a family, but I do try to keep my disease on the back burner with them.
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08-21-2011, 06:02 PM   #27
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Crohn's forum to me means always having the comfort that everyone knows exactly how you feel, getting great advice from people who've been there, and the extra knowledge you can take into the doctors office
I'm so glad I joined this forum, especially at a time when I've been in flare for almost 8 months, I don't think I could have done it without you all.
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08-21-2011, 06:44 PM   #28
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I found the forum before my diagnosis and the advice and support I got through that period of fear and uncertainty, through to diagnosis and starting treatment has been invaluable. I would've been so in the dark, in so many ways, without my friends here. When there's news or developments, you are the first people I tell.
Thank you from my bottom...... Of my heart, that is!! :-) xxx
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10-12-2011, 10:49 AM   #29
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Crohnsforum.com means inspiration for me. The people here inspire me to be a better, stronger, person. It inspires me to learn so that I might have the answers for someone in need. It inspires me to reach within for an extra helping of compassion as that is what everyone here deserves.
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10-12-2011, 11:11 AM   #30
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For me it means complete understanding, compassion,and people who really know what it its like. My family is great but I am the only one with a chronic disease and they don't really understand even though they try to. It means laughing when I am down and just when I think I cannot find it in me to to get up someone is on here saying yes you can....
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