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Overwhelmed, but glad to have a diagnosis

Hello everyone my name is Brandy. I am a single mother of 3 boys. We have had a very rough summer and I am so glad to have a diagnosis, a treatment plan, some answers, and definitely some hope. I am grateful to have found this site it is so full of information and I feel it will be very helpful. This is our story. School was ending and everything in life was going really well. My middle son Connor was being a regular 11 year old boy. Enjoying life and happy for summer to start. The first two weeks that school was out I noticed that Connor was losing some weight, but I was not concerned because he does this every summer. I assumed going swimming everyday and spending every afternoon riding his bike was the reason for this. Out of all my children Connor has been my healthiest. I can't even remember the last time that he even had a cold. The third week of June I noticed he was eating less and I started questioning him as to why he wasn't eating very much. He stated that he had been having a stomach ache. I asked him about how his bm's were and he said they were fine, but a little harder than usual. I added some fiber and some more fruit and veggies to his diet. I thought maybe he was a little constipated and that was causing the stomach issues. By the end of this week he had lost a total of 10lbs.

I started monitoring his activity and every thing that was going in or out of his body. During this week he started eating less and less and laying around more and more. I had decided that on the Monday of the following week that I would make him an appointment. Monday didn't make that Friday Connor started vomiting. Once the vomiting started it didn't stop. Every time Connor would eat he would throw it up. On Sunday he was curled up on the couch crying in severe pain. I was worried and not sure what was going on so I took him to the ER. At the ER he had blood work and xray's done. The doctor there thought he had an ulcer. He prescribed him some pepcid, zopran, and referred us to a specialist. When we left Connor seemed to be feeling a little better. I called the specialist and his schedule was busy.

He couldn't get us in till the middle of July so I kept Connor on the meds he was prescribed and we waited. He was still not eating much, the vomiting had lessened, and activity was still low. Two weeks after first ER visit we were back. Severe vomiting, severe stomach pains. At this point by son was down to 80 lbs which was a 25lb weight loss in a little over a month. The doctor at this visit was rude and wanted to spend most of her time talking to me about my son's mental state and telling me she was worried that he was anorexic. I left that visit disappointed and with no assistance. I continued to call the GI specialist and begged for them to please get us in asap. The second week of July we got in. We have now had an Endoscopy, Colonoscopy, every blood test you could think of, and finally the M2A pill cam. The doctor has finally gotten the results and went through all of his test and is diagnosing him with Crohn's. He is now down to 73lbs. He looks horrible! He has dark circles under his eyes. He looks extremely emaciated and malnourished. Almost like a walking skeleton. His disease is affecting his stomach and small intestine.

His large intestine looks perfect. We have no diarhea. We have vomiting and extreme stomach pain as soon as he eats. The doctor is starting him on Prevacid, Imuran, zopran, a dairy supplement and 20 mg of prednisone 3 times a day for 3 weeks. I am so glad to get a diagnosis and hopefully get my son back to a healthy state, but also very worried about the meds and their side affects. Thank you for any one that reads this I really needed to let this out. I am so glad that I found this forum. I was getting to a point were I was feeling like a horrible mom watching my once healthy son starve himself to death and nothing I could do about it. If anyone has any advice I welcome it. He is not very happy with me right now as he is looking at all the pills he has to start taking, but I am definitely looking at this as a chance for us to get back to normal.
 

Angrybird

Moderator
Location
Hertfordshire
Hello and welcome to the forum, I am sorry to hear that your son has been so poorly :( I will certainly be keeping fingers crossed that the meds can get him feeling better soon.

With regards to the pred I take it after the 3 weeks the dosage will start to taper down? Also did the doc precribe a calcium supplement for him to take whilst on this? If not I would ask them about this as steroids can effect the bones and a supplement can help protect them. We do have a treatment section here so do have a look here to get further info both on this and the Imuran: http://www.crohnsforum.com/forumdisplay.php?f=16.

We also have a parents forum so definetly check this out so you can have a chat with other mums and dads: http://www.crohnsforum.com/forumdisplay.php?f=49.

AB
xx
 
Hi Brandy,

I am really sorry to hear your son has had such a miserable summer and that the doctors along the way have not listened, been better doctors or failed to push for him to be seen by GI more quickly.

That said, it does sound like the GI has put him on a treatment plan that is appropriate and typical.

What do you mean by a dairy supplement? Do you mean a calcium supplement as Angrybird suggested or something else?

If you mean a daily formula supplement of some kind like Ensure or Boost or Peptamen Jr. then that should be very helpful in getting his weight back up and soothing his gut.

The zofran should reduce his nausea a lot and you might tell him that when he has to take "all those pills" that that one for sure will help with that.

Unless the doctor has given different instructions, I suggest you give him the imuran at night, just before bed. Do NOT give it with milk or within 2 hours of him having had milk. It can cause some mild nausea but giving it at bedtime means most kids will sleep through that.

Did your doctor go over when you should be concerned and call him right away, when to call after hours and/or take your son to ER? If not, then I suggest you contact his office and ask his nurse for that information now so you have it on hand. When in doubt I would call them even if it is after hours.

I also suggest you check out the parents forum.

Hugs. He will get better and you are a great mom.
 
Hi Brandy and welcome.
I'm sorry you had to find your way here.
We have a wonderful Parents forum here.
Their support and knowledge has help me a great deal.
Please feel free to stop by!

Farmwife
 

David

Co-Founder
Location
Naples, Florida
Hi Brandy and welcome :)

I'm so sorry to hear about your son :( My heart goes out to your entire family.

You've already received some good advice so I just wanted to echo what was said. Be sure to connect with the other parents in our Parents of Kids with IBD section. They are an amazing and very knowledgeable bunch. And if your son is NOT on enteral nutrition, be sure to research it as it is an amazing treatment option and will likely help your son a ton.

Again, welcome. We're here for you!
 
Hi Brandy!

So so to hear about your son! But so glad he has such a supportive mom!!
This place is awesome and you will find just about anything you are looking for. I always feel that IBD is one of the most cruel diseases out there because of how it effects young people- not fair to be that age and have to deal with this stuff. But the meds now are so much better than when I started, and with less side effects (other than Prednisone that is). The Imuran takes a few months to kick in and if it works well, then hopefully the Prednisone can be tapered off. Prednisone can be tough- seems like you trade one set of problems (the disease) for another (side effects), but it does a good job of taking the pain away.
 
Yes they put him on two calcium supplements a day. Thanks everyone for your feedback. We are now on a couple days of the meds and things are going okay so far. I think he may have gotten a better system down for him to take all these pills, because the first day was rough. Glad I found my way here to all you helpful people.

Brandy
 
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