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An Introduction of.. me?

Hello, my name is Ian. I'm currently 19, and have been diagnosed with Crohns for a little over two years now. To be honest, I have never really given too much thought and effort into the disease until recently. I've come to realize that I'm really not taking care of the disease as much as I should be. It's been difficult, and I haven't had too much help and support, admittedly because of my own choices. The first year of having the disease, I more or less kept it to myself; my mother had been diagnosed terminal and I felt the last thing she needed was to be constantly worrying about me. After her death, it's been more or less the same with some more complications. It's quite difficult to have the proper diet with/on a student's budget and lifestyle.

I have actually never taken an medication or anything for the disease/pain, but rather just drudged through it as it comes. I've always used a piece of advice my mother gave me in her last few weeks: "Just keep laughing". Keeping a positive attitude and humorous demeanor has aided me quite well these past years. Crohns hasn't been too much of a problem, and hasn't brought me down enough to effect my school or work, but it's been a chore to say the least. Recently some of the more cumbersome symptoms have been springing up, and it's made me realize that I can't continue pretending like it'll all just eventually go away and disappear. In an attempt to become better informed and involved I decided to join this forum. I have actually never talked to anyone with the same disease, so it'll be helpful and informative to just have that chance. So...Here I am!

That's enough of my little, oh so fun, rant. I swear, I'm not usually this open/ depressing! I'm a generally fun guy, I swear! Anyways, I hope to utilize this support system as much as I can, and I look forward to posting and such.
 
Welcome Ian! Glad to have you with us! I hope you can find this site as supportive and useful as I have. Look forward to seeing you around.
 
hi Ian, welcome to the forum.

firstly, my condolences on losing your mum.

i agree with Pen in that it might be an idea to get yourself under the care of a GI - i'm a great believer in being on a specialist's list once you're diagnosed with something, even if you don't need to see them very often. new treatments and discoveries happen all the time in the medical world, so there may well be something that could help you now, that you weren't offered when you were diagnosed.

i'm really glad you found us, this forum is a fantastic place, & our members rock when it comes to advice & support :D
 
Welcome to the forum Ian!

I am so sorry about the loss of your mother.

If you want support, questions answered,
or just to vent a little you've come to the right place.

Keep us posted as to how you are coping.

Welcoming hugs~Nancy
 
good for you Ian

Irl1989 said:
Hello, my name is Ian. I'm currently 19, and have been diagnosed with Crohns for a little over two years now. To be honest, I have never really given too much thought and effort into the disease until recently. I've come to realize that I'm really not taking care of the disease as much as I should be. It's been difficult, and I haven't had too much help and support, admittedly because of my own choices. The first year of having the disease, I more or less kept it to myself; my mother had been diagnosed terminal and I felt the last thing she needed was to be constantly worrying about me. After her death, it's been more or less the same with some more complications. It's quite difficult to have the proper diet with/on a student's budget and lifestyle.

I have actually never taken an medication or anything for the disease/pain, but rather just drudged through it as it comes. I've always used a piece of advice my mother gave me in her last few weeks: "Just keep laughing". Keeping a positive attitude and humorous demeanor has aided me quite well these past years. Crohns hasn't been too much of a problem, and hasn't brought me down enough to effect my school or work, but it's been a chore to say the least. Recently some of the more cumbersome symptoms have been springing up, and it's made me realize that I can't continue pretending like it'll all just eventually go away and disappear. In an attempt to become better informed and involved I decided to join this forum. I have actually never talked to anyone with the same disease, so it'll be helpful and informative to just have that chance. So...Here I am!

That's enough of my little, oh so fun, rant. I swear, I'm not usually this open/ depressing! I'm a generally fun guy, I swear! Anyways, I hope to utilize this support system as much as I can, and I look forward to posting and such.
I am only very new to this page Ian but it is taking me some time to get out the words to even try and explain what i have been through..you have done a great thing by writing here, keep your chin up and keep going.regards bruscar
 

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Hi Ian,

Welcome to the forum! So very sorry your mum isnt physically with you each day although I am sure she is with you in spirit and memories just as strong..

We all go through the registering of whether we are looking after ourselves well enough in relation to crohns so you arent alone with that one.

Your thoughts on staying positive will ring true to many of us here too because its a defensive stance we all take to help us cope and sometimes it can be to our detriment because we dont ask for help when we really need it and struggle on so well done you for finding us and posting!

Looking forward to seeing you around more Ian. ((hugs))
 
hey ian!
i saw your ava on another thread and was like "hmmmm he looks 19..."
heh! im right :)
im 19 as well so i just figured id pop in and say hello
see you around!
 
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