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New from Ethiopia

new from Ethiopia

helloo all
i am living wiz CD in Ethiopia.i am 25 MALE
HERE IS MY SHORT STORY,
i am glad to share my story with u all that was published on Australian crohn's and colities association.
i get this sie when i read the NACC megazine and get Anasacia information and get here to be a family with CD friends, i am alone here it is not common ,so hard for me really .
here is my story .
i love to hear from u too

IBD Type: Crohn’s



Most difficult experience(s) with IBD: I feel isolated, lonely, and at times as if I am being punished. I feel like I live in the middle of all the hardships of this world and wonder how long I carry on without good care and treatment. I think like I lost my all dreams (like education and to stand on my feet more and be like my friends). The future seems dark and even I hate to live sometimes.



My Tips: Happiness keeps you sweet; trial keeps you strong; sorrow keeps you human; life keeps you humble, but only God keeps you going so try and live with all your problems.



My Story: I was diagnosed with Crohn’s disease in 2001 and I have had fistulas twice. To live here it is one of the most backward and poor countries, especially in medical care. It is much worse for Crohn’s patients like me. It can be hard in developed countries, let alone here. My follow-up is in a public hospital in the capital. It’s a referral hospital so many patients come here from different parts of our country. There are not enough doctors to accommodate the number of patients. Crohn’s is not common here so the doctors have limited practical experience in knowing how to manage me. There are very few GP’s and most work out of private hospitals. It is very difficult to get them in public ones. My follow-up when I am very sick is a gap of every 4 or 5 months and is due to the amount of patients. I usually get a student doctor and the problem is difficult for them. They tell me a lot of different suggestions and more than my capability to understand. It makes me feel confused, upset, and this makes things more complicated.

When my Crohn’s flares-up, it is such a long time before I have an appointment to see the doctor. It is a very rough wait. There are no facilities for colonoscopies, blood chemistry, or biopsies, and so we have to wait for private help. There are often patients with cancer, leukemia etc, which are major problems so it is not only me. Private hospitals are also very expensive. If you do not have money, sooner or later death happens. We are all human and deserve good things. I struggle to buy my medicines for my Crohn’s and the doctor wants me on other medication.

My Crohn’s is located at the join of the small intestine and large intestine and due to inflammation I have a caecal mass and narrowing of the bowel which needs surgery. I am in a lot of pain despite pain killers and cannot sleep properly. At night time I try to sleep on my left side and on my chest because the right side makes the pain more severe. I have anaemia and need transfusions of blood. The blood levels are so low I have collapsed. I was told this may attack my heart or brain. I am also underweight and nutrition is a problem too. My heart beats a lot and I am very tired.

I am writing this myself and do not want to tell others or ask advice for my story because most of the people here think on the negative side. They really love to talk bad about things and about other people’s health problems. They say it is God’s punishment and that he must have sinned and that’s how he got this problem. I know that I was just a kid and have not made a mistake or done anything wrong. God has given me courage and strength to handle things and to be strong. They are wrong and I advise them to think about themselves, as life has no guarantee. We will not know what happens to us in the future. This feels good to write about my inner feelings for others who understand. It makes me happy. I hope that maybe you don’t get these kind of problems because most of the people there are educated and understanding of things in a positive way.
RESPECT
MRE
 
Hello mre...First I want to welcome you to the Crohn's Forum.
You have had a rough time with your Crohn's and I wish you could get to better health care.

There are many people here with Crohn's who are very helpful
and will help to answer any questions you may have.
Please feel free to read, comment and feel at home here in the forums.

Above all....hold onto your faith and positive attitude!!
God is not punishing you. You did nothing wrong.


They say it is God’s punishment and that he must have sinned and that’s how he got this problem. I know that I was just a kid and have not made a mistake or done anything wrong. God has given me courage and strength to handle things and to be strong. They are wrong and I advise them to think about themselves, as life has no guarantee. We will not know what happens to us in the future. This feels good to write about my inner feelings for others who understand. It makes me happy. I hope that maybe you don’t get these kind of problems because most of the people there are educated and understanding of things in a positive way.

I hope you get some easier access to health care soon.
You are welcome here.
Heart Hugs~Nancy
 
Welcome to the forum MRE, I am sorry that you have had to deal with all of this turmoil in your life. This is a great place to learn and talk to others in similar spots. Best of luck to you hope all improves very soon.
 
Hi MRE, and welcome. That truly sucks about the state of the health care system there. I hope you are able to get your symptoms under control and feel better soon.
 

Astra

Moderator
Hi mre
and welcome

I'm so glad that you have found us, we can offer you lots of support, you are no longer alone, please read through the forum threads and ask us any questions.
I truly believe that God didn't give you Crohns, and I hope you keep your faith. You need to believe that you haven't done anything wrong, it's an auto immune disease that millions of people have got.
hope you find some inner peace
take care
lotsa luv
Joan xxx
 
Hi MRE,

It breaks my heart that you haven't got good medical care. It's good though that you have found us and can share your worries with others who understand some of what you're going through. Please please don't think you have done anything wrong or are being punished. Life is just unfair and hard sometimes and there's no reason for it. Lots of really good people have Crohn's.
I hope you find lots of advice and comfort on the forum.
Gail
xx
 
Location
N.Z
Hi mre and welcome.

Thank you for sharing your story, I can not imagine how hard it must be for you trying to cope with this disease alone. I hope you can find some comfort from this forum. Stay strong!

M
 

Crohn's 35

Inactive Account
Hi MRE, I can see you have found some support here with great people to help you out. We have enough problems with this disease without tests, and I cannot imagine what you are going through. A cheap drug that works, and if you can get a hold of some is Prednisone, it will help your pain and gain weight, something to get you on track or tie you over. I remember a surgeon specialist for IBD and cancer has said no one in the poorer countries have Crohn's is because they don't eat western world food. You are the first I have heard of. No wonder there is little to help you. I dont know if it would help but I have a couple of books to send you if they would help. Hang in there, sorry you are having a rough time. Is there any family members with IBD? Take care.
 
Thank U All It Is My Pleasue To Know U All, Yes God Has A Reson For This All , But It Is Hard For Me, I Feel Like I Am In The Middle Of Hardships And Suffer.thank U Guys It Means A Lot Fo rMe Ok , U Know Waht I Feel With Out Any More Claification Yes? We All Are In The Same Page But Far From each Other.

I Wish To Stand On My Feet And To Be Stong Person, I Passed a Lot really .
As U Know It Is Chronic Health Poblem And Needs Tretments , But I Guess I Am Not Foutunate For That , I Do Not Know why These All Happens On Me.

Any Ways I Am Trying My Best .

No I Am The Only One From Family With Cd,
Even I Did Not Get Any One Here with cd , it is Very Rare , I Born Here And Live Here For My Life, And Eat All Foods My Family Eat , So Form Where It Comes ,? Strange Really .

I Look For Ward To Hear From U All
And Familiar With This Site Too.
Thank U All
Rspect
 

ameslouise

Moderator
Hi Mre, and Welcome!

I hope you can find a way to get some decent medicine and medical care. It is unfortunate that other people have a negative view of other's medical problems. You did not cause this, and it is no fault of your own that you have Crohn's.

Please try to stay positive! I agree with Pen that you should try to get Prednisone to control the flare up and gain some weight. It is cheap and should be readily available.

Good luck! -Amy
 
thank u amy

yes i took it for 6 years ,and they told me to stop it from now on , i had surgery a year ago , now they need me to be on maintenace tretment. that is very hard for me .
any ways i am doing my best .
i really love to go other country for better care and tretmenst but it is far like a sky for me, i think it is much better ,
but i do not know the way how i can do that .
if one of u have info i am happy to see all options.
all of u thak u amd be well .
mre
 
Hi Mre,
Welcome to the forum - I am also fairly new here and find it very welcoming and there are a lot of experienced people here with patience. They can explain things in ways that make sense.
I am glad you found the forum. We may be far apart but you are no longer alone :)
________
Vapolution
 
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Hello mre,

I only want to wish you that you get better.

About going to other countries for treatment can be complicated even in the developped world. It can be quite expensive.

If you are jewish, or have some jewish familiy, check if you are entitled to emigrate to israel. Healthcare there is garanteed to everyone, and should be top notch.

One thing to avoid probably is milk or any product containing milk, if you feel that it causes you gas and cramps.

Stay strong
 
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thank u very much .i get u .
yes milk is very bad for me too, makes things more worse .that is the bad thing for me ,

than u gain guys
respect
 
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