Well, it's painful AND embarrassing. My event occured suddenly, w/o warning. I couldn't make it home, the pain was just too extreme. My g/f (at the time) was nearby. I managed to make it there (barely). fortunately, she is a nurse. I explained my situation, I went into the 1/2 bathroom off her foyer, she went to the pharmacy and picked up some enemas, and a few other essentials. The supplies helped me correct the situation, but the sounds and other things eminating from her bathroom while I dealt with this certainly didn't do anything to cement our relationship, nurse or not. I think it definitely ended up being a nail in the coffin of our relationship. Now, thats embarrassing! Felt like I was delivering a full grown bull elephant. :-(