I am now 52 years old. I was diagnosed with Crohn's just before I turned 21.
I have had 2 major bowel re-sections. Have had several surgeries for perianal abscesses and had a seton inserted. My major problems over the past few years have been obstructions from strictures in my bowel and now I think I have a recto vaginal fistula/abscess My GP put me on flagyl and kephle type drug for past week but hasn't done anything. I have just been to see a gyno and he said he couldn't really help as he was not trained in this area. He spoke to a colleague, a uro gyno (I think) who wouldn't see me as she said couldn't do repair surgery as 99% times these type of fistulas recur so directed me back to my gastro and bowel surgeon who (by the way) have felt the only answer to my problems with crohns is a stoma. I have always fought this with a vengeance. I feel whist I still have control of my bowel and can go to the bathroom naturally I want to keep my rectum (all be it scarred and ugly as it is!) I am scared, embarassed and depressed all at the same time. I really don't feel anyone understands me but after reading some of the stories on this website tonight maybe there are people out there just like me experiencing the same sorts of dramas I have been going through. I have an appointment with my gastro and surgeon in a week or so's time and about to go on a week's holiday but scared I will need to go to ER before then. I think I need to get this abscess drained asap as I am in horroific pain. Just want to share my story with someone
I have had 2 major bowel re-sections. Have had several surgeries for perianal abscesses and had a seton inserted. My major problems over the past few years have been obstructions from strictures in my bowel and now I think I have a recto vaginal fistula/abscess My GP put me on flagyl and kephle type drug for past week but hasn't done anything. I have just been to see a gyno and he said he couldn't really help as he was not trained in this area. He spoke to a colleague, a uro gyno (I think) who wouldn't see me as she said couldn't do repair surgery as 99% times these type of fistulas recur so directed me back to my gastro and bowel surgeon who (by the way) have felt the only answer to my problems with crohns is a stoma. I have always fought this with a vengeance. I feel whist I still have control of my bowel and can go to the bathroom naturally I want to keep my rectum (all be it scarred and ugly as it is!) I am scared, embarassed and depressed all at the same time. I really don't feel anyone understands me but after reading some of the stories on this website tonight maybe there are people out there just like me experiencing the same sorts of dramas I have been going through. I have an appointment with my gastro and surgeon in a week or so's time and about to go on a week's holiday but scared I will need to go to ER before then. I think I need to get this abscess drained asap as I am in horroific pain. Just want to share my story with someone