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My daughters story

my daughters story

She was born a nice healthy 8lbs 2oz full term and a normal delivery. Already had her name picked Leigh-anne totally georgous. She was a lovely baby slept through the night by the time she was 4 weeks old.
I never knew i had her she was so good till she started primary school then turned into a little monkey.
She went through school and got to her 10th birthday pretty much no hiccups hardly went to the doctors and up till this point she was slow at gaining weight thought nothing of it though she was never grossly underweight just my little skinny minnie and my angel.
Then my sister in law had to run away to a refuge to escape an abusive partner and i told both my kids not to go near him in case he quizzes them they always insisted they knew nothing but i told them he didnt know that.
Then it started the vomiting and being on the toilet all the time you know how it is this went on for about 8 weeks with many visits to the doctor it was basically said its probably something she will have to put up with till puberty. Untill the rash arrived on her legs looked like insect bites without the little dot in the middle where the bite is. We were sent straight to hospital basic tests done and eventually told the not so good news. Had to do the camera tests to confirm diagnosis.
A few months later she got an abcess and had to go to theatre to have 15mls of puss removed by this time she was put on azathiopren .
Its healed now after 2 1/2 years with numerous doses of inflixamab (not to sure on spelling) which carries many risks at worst being death by infection as this drug reduces the immune system so much but it worked. Until now the skin in the same area is starting to break down again so emotions are pretty high all round.
Shes 13 now well 14 in July and its been a rollercoaster of an emotional ride over the past few years so if anyone out there can give me some advice it would be apprieciated. :smile:
 
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My Butt Hurts

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Hi and welcome to the forum. So sorry you have to be here, but it is a great support system for many of us. There is a wealth of information here if you use the search feature.
Is she still on Remicade? Or anything else?
 
welcome! Unfortunate that you have to be here, but it's a great place to get and share info. Probably one of my favorite spots.
 
thanks for saying hi and im finding it a great place for gathering the info you might not get from the doctor you know how precious their time is and my daughters consultant is lovely and her specialist nurse without her i think i would have cracked up by now if she cant answer the phone when i ring her she gets straight back to me but i do think this forum is going to be a great help to the both of us
 
:welcome: Aw, I have many a time wondered just what all my parents go thru when they see that I am sick, I am 24 but living with them now more or less because I dont feel like liveing alone and also they are alot older than most parents for being 24, my mom is 66 and my dad is 75 so when i am feeling well or even when i am not I am able to help them out around the house alot. I must say that both you and your daughter will come to love this place I am sure. Just knowing that you are not alone in this is a wonderful feeling. I looked for a long time for a place I'd feel comfortable in and people who understood me, even tho I am still physically feeling horriable I must say emotionally I feel really great when I am here and basically moved here I think.Other than that, I myself have only had the real diagnosis now for a little over a year and must say nothing is helping me out at the moment but I know alot of the people here would probably be able to give you alot more insight than I would. I can say this much tho, as a "daughter" of a mother I sometimes see that helpless look on her face, i know she loves me and wants to help me so much. I know that even tho she doesn't feel the same pain I feel it rips her and my dad up on a daily basis just like it does me. Just be there for her and as a woman I am sure you can b a really good strong rock for her to lean on, I know my mom is. My mom is like my best friend, she is only a "mom" when she has to be. Haveing crohns can not only be inconvenient but it can also be very embarrassing, I could only imagine at 14. At her age not only is she going to soon be or is starting puberity but with this also she will need all the hugs and support from you she can get I am sure. Is she attending public school still or not? If things get to be too hard for her to handle you might want to even consider home schooling or something. Dont let her drop out like I ended up doing tho. The Drs saw me as "a typicial teen age girl" so they never took me very seriously... in fact I was sick from age 15 untill 23 before actually getting diagnosed so at least they have taken her seriously. Then again my symptoms were a bit off and slow to appear in alot of ways. So good luck and I hope to see you here more often :)
 
Thanks for that yes shes in school its a bit tricky some days but on good days she likes it but soon im going to have to sort something out for her exams this year to see what she going to study in her last years at school because the stress causes symptoms but there is ways around it to get them done and she can be granted extra time to do them in so ill see you around then
 
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